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(07-12-2014, 12:47 PM)LesStrat Wrote: No, no, you really ARE confused when you believe that you can "read" women.
LesStrat is so right on this point kid. You will NEVER be able to read women. I can't even read my wife. Stop trying to figure this chick out because it will only make your head explode. Stop thinking and start acting.
The most success I had when I was your age was when I just jumped in. The times I just walked up to a girl and started kissing her or undressing her. Hell there where a few drunken nights I even just undressed myself.
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That's a good move, she how she acts when you blow her off.
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07-13-2014, 01:58 PM
(This post was last modified: 07-13-2014, 01:59 PM by LesStrat.)
When you blow off her contacts, DO NOT RESPOND LOGICALLY. It will do no good to use the reasons you've stated. Instead, mask it in indifference and a seeming lack of interest.
"Oh, I got busy talking to this girl I met and didn't see your message. Did you still want to talk? I might have some time later."
Because I said so.
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(07-13-2014, 12:50 PM)Speng Wrote: That's a good move, she how she acts she blows you.
fixed
(05-06-2015, 11:27 AM)youngthrasher9 Wrote: If it came down to it, I might suck dick for my family.
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(07-13-2014, 01:58 PM)LesStrat Wrote: When you blow off her contacts, DO NOT RESPOND LOGICALLY. It will do no good to use the reasons you've stated. Instead, mask it in indifference and a seeming lack of interest.
"Oh, I got busy talking to this girl I met and didn't see your message. Did you still want to talk? I might have some time later."
This^^^^^
Women are irrational creatures. You have to play their game if you want to come out on top.
Trust me, I'm a medical professional.
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If I have to cum out I'd rather do it on the bottom.
(05-06-2015, 11:27 AM)youngthrasher9 Wrote: If it came down to it, I might suck dick for my family.
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(07-12-2014, 03:50 AM)youngthrasher9 Wrote: she maintained that she hasn't decided not to go out with me but she needs to know me better first. However, every time I try and make an effort she seems to withdraw.
I think you need to double date her, or only meet up in public places, with friends, etc. It sounds like she doesn't know you well and doesn't want to be alone with you yet. You have to think of her view point. As far as she knows, you could turn out to be a serial something-or-other. Until she is confident you are a decent man, you are going to stay outside the circle.
Everyone should be armed ...until nobody has guns.
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(07-13-2014, 07:13 PM)beaubrummels Wrote: I think you need to double date her, or only meet up in public places, with friends, etc. It sounds like she doesn't know you well and doesn't want to be alone with you yet. You have to think of her view point. As far as she knows, you could turn out to be a serial something-or-other. Until she is confident you are a decent man, you are going to stay outside the circle.
I *might* try this approach depending on how she reacts to being ignored.
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It's been almost 2 weeks and no texts so I think I'm free to move on.
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Safe travels Lil fella! I honestly think you're better off moving on.
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